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Questionnaire 1: Question 10 and General Summary
Do you have any other feelings/thoughts you would like to share concerning sexuality and the Methodist Church?There
were
a couple of comments that homosexual people outside the church were
very kind
and nice people. Some
felt that the
church should aim to promote monogamous and loving relationships
whatever the
sexuality – and stand against promiscuous behaviour. Some said that the church
should recognise
the changes in society more. One
person
said that they’d be quite happy if theirs was a homosexual
minister – as long
as they did their job well.
Some
said
it must be awful for homosexual people to come to terms with their
sexuality,
especially if they are forced to conform, and the church should not add
to
this, but help. One
person believed
that channelling sexuality into same sex relationships was a healthy
way of
doing so, and may reduce child abuse.
One
person
graphically described homosexuality, concluding that it is more likely
to pass
on aids. Another
said that allowing
this endangers the physical health of the nation.
One
commented that all people should be respected, but feared that people
are
seeking new thrills all the time.
Many
of those who were against homosexuality said that they should or would
not drive people away,
but would not make the effort to welcome homosexual people, and that
they should not
be allowed in positions of authority, especially working with young
people or
children. Whilst
one also said that
they worried about young people, and another saying Christians should
stand up
and be counted against these wrong doings.
One person said ‘love the person, hate the
sin.’ One
person said that if the Methodist Church
agrees to allow homosexuals into the ministry they would resign their
membership.
One
person
said that generally young people don’t have a problem, but
the older ones do,
so give it 20 years and homosexuals will be embraced.
One person commented that people change their views when
around
leaders, and called them hypocrites.
There
were some people who commented that their viewpoint had changed, and
may change
in the future. Another
person said they
were confused about how society can allow this when the Bible says it
is wrong,
and another said they found it hard to comprehend.
One person said that it would create a chasm in Methodism
that
will not heal.
It’s
hard
to categorise all the questionnaires and answers.
Some people who have generally answered no have still
emphasised
positive points about welcoming homosexuals, sometime a
‘no’ is not because
they disagree, but because they think it may cause trouble within the
church,
or they have certain reservations.
Although
there is diversity there are some common responses that need to be
highlighted. Generally
there are 45
questionnaires that have a welcoming attitude towards homosexual
people, this
may not necessarily be into all areas of leadership within Methodism
(question
6 shows a more realistic number for this), or that they agree with
same-sex
relationships, but they would have a welcoming attitude, whilst 24 have
shown
attitudes of almost complete dismissal of the church associating with
homosexual people.
There
are
14 questionnaires that refer to the Bible or passages within the Bible. There are 12
questionnaires that affirm God
made humanity male and female, and marriage is between male and female. There were 8
questionnaires that believed
same-sex relationships threaten marriage and family life. 6 people expressed that
unions and marriage
were for procreation. 5
people
specifically mentioned homosexual practise.
2 people mentioned HIV/AIDS.
10
people made reference to child abuse and young people being influenced.