Pilgrimage of Faith

Questionnaire 1: Question 9 - Unsure Responses

With the recent same-sex partnership bill, should the Methodist Church bless same-sex unions?

‘I struggle with this one on one hand I believe if we are recognising lesbians and gay men into the ministry then yes the Methodist Church should bless such unions.  If it is being classed as a marriage I feel this should be a “civil” ceremony with a blessing from the church if the couples wish it.’

 'For me this is an unresolved issue.  Many would argue that homosexuality is an abomination in the eyes of God.  I do, however, wonder whether living in a more enlightened society we acknowledge that we are still unclear whether an individual’s sexual preference is innate or acquired.  If it is innate and as such beyond the control of the individual is it reasonable to claim that a homosexual cannot have a partner as is the privilege of a heterosexual person?’

‘I tend to think of unions in terms of marriage and all that entails with respect to commitment, love, compassion and procreation.  I realise that in same sex unions they will bring a variety of gifts but have a problem with procreation, hence my reservations.  However, in a wish to be inclusive I take note of the comments in [an] article by an Anglican Vicar.’

‘I do not think I am qualified enough to give an opinion one way or another on this issue.’

‘No knowledge why not’

‘I don’t think marriage should take place.  Blessing in church I’m not sure.’

‘If the concerned parties were regular worshippers in the church concerned, then I don’t see any reason why not.  But if they are just using the church as a show place, then I feel that they should have a civil ceremony.’

‘Because marriage involves procreation, and family ties.  Same sex unions I have no difficulty with until the decisive matter of blessings in God’s sight?  Blessed they are in God’s love, but beyond this I struggle!’